If…. by Rudyard Kipling
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too:
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise;
If you can dream — and not make dreams your master;
If you can think — and not make thoughts your aim,
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same:
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools;
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings,
And never breathe a word about your loss:
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so, hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on!”
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings — nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much:
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And which is more: you’ll be a Man, my son!
Synopsis:
This poem spoke to me in great depth because it truly relates to situations that I am facing currently in my life. To me, this poem speaks of leadership and how someone is supposed to handle themselves when faced with obstacles. In the first part of the poem, it speaks about “keeping your head” under stressful situations because others may not be able to do so. As a leader, you must be able to stand tall and weather the storm.
“Trust yourself” is a key essential element for leadership because not everyone is going to see the way you see things and are going to challenge you. But as a good leader, a leader must accept the input from others because ultimately it could help accomplish the goals set in place.
“If you can wait and not be tired of waiting” speaks about how a leader needs to empower those that are under them. To give them a chance to perform and contribute, while you sit back and wait. This allows the people around you to grow.
“If you can meet with triumph and disaster and treat those two imposters just the same” speaks to me with encouragement to keeping moving forward, whether I have success or not and continue to set new goals for myself.
“If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken” speaks about trust. A leader must have trust in their people, while the people need to have trust in their leader. Without either one, the daily goals will be hard to achieve.
“If you can make one heap of all your winnings and risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, and lose, and start at your beginnings” deals with the
attributes that make a person a leader through success and how they can use their knowledge in many different situations.
“Hold on when there is nothing in you except the will which says to them: hold on!” focuses on the ability of a leader to overcome the obstacles and challenges that arise. Persevering through these obstacles will make a person much stronger and effective.
“If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue or walk with kings- nor lose the common touch” speaks about how a leader should never forget where they came from and who helped them along the way.
Overall this poem focuses on what it takes to be a leader and what leadership qualities are needed to be successful. I mentioned before that this poem speaks true me and this is because I am currently going through a situation like this at work. I have taken on a leadership role at work over the past few years and have many people look up to me. I have shown that I am able to stand fast, even when opposition goes against me. I have been in line for a promotion for some time now and have been passed over several times, in favor of others that a less qualified than I. But I have continued not to get down and move forward with my own personal goals.
This poem is aesthetic with its intention on effecting the readers emotions. People can easily relate to the situations that are describe with the passages. There is strength within the words presented and encouragement on how to handle yourself when faced with opposition. A few of the terms to remember I felt related to this poem were centered space, earth-dominating architecture, and symmetry. Centered space typically focuses around an object and in this case, the object would be the leader. The situations that the leader faces throughout the poem, draws the read in and teaches them what to do. Earth- dominating architecture often does not look for attention but demands it. This relates to a true leader because a leader needs to have the attention of their followers. Symmetry typically is a view within a building and showing what it has to offer but, in this case, I look to the leader as the building and the things that they have to offer are the qualities they possess that makes them a good leader.